Kindness Is a Scam so let’s cut through the noise.
“Be kind.”
“Be nice.”
“Be positive.”
Kindness Is a Scam: How the World Rewards the Weak and Silences the Real
This is the propaganda of a world designed to break the strong and coddle the obedient.
Kindness is a scam.
Not in theory—but in the way it’s weaponized by society. We live in a system that doesn’t value compassion. It exploits it. It manipulates it. It uses it like a leash.
Meanwhile, those of us who refuse to wear the mask—who speak with venom, truth, fire—get labeled as toxic. We’re the villains because we don’t smile when we’re bleeding. We’re the threat because we don’t pretend everything’s fine when we’re being drowned in silence.
The Myth of Kindness
They tell you kindness is strength.
No. Kindness is currency. It’s transactional. It’s about being likable. Marketable. Digestible.
In the real world, kindness is not rewarded. Not unless it comes in the right package—smiling, polished, submissive.
If you’re too kind, they call you weak.
If you’re too blunt, they call you cruel.
The system isn’t built to reward truth. It’s built to reward obedience.
And the kindness it wants from you?
It’s not empathy. It’s compliance.
You’re not supposed to feel for others—you’re supposed to be silent for them. You’re supposed to hold back your rage so they can keep pretending the world isn’t on fire.
I Grew Up with the Lie
When I was young, I believed in kindness. I gave without asking. I forgave when I should’ve cut them off. I tried to belong.
You know what it got me?
Nothing.
Betrayal. Gaslighting. Silence.
The weak smile while they stab you in the back. The fake ones say “just be kind” while they weaponize your integrity against you. They can’t stand realness, because realness makes them uncomfortable.
You tell them how you really feel?
They ghost.
You set boundaries?
You’re “difficult.”
You don’t kneel?
You’re “problematic.”
This culture doesn’t want depth. It wants docility.
The Reward System of Cowardice
Ever notice who gets celebrated?
The ones who smile the widest.
The ones who say nothing controversial.
The ones who “play the game.”
Meanwhile, the ones who fight back? Who call out injustice, hypocrisy, manipulation? They’re labeled angry, bitter, aggressive, toxic.
But you know what the truth is?
They’re the only real ones left.
Because here’s what no one wants to admit:
The world isn’t fair.
The world doesn’t want truth.
The world doesn’t want real change.
It wants sedation. It wants peacekeepers. It wants fake smiles glued over broken bones.
If You’re Honest, You’re a Threat
People love “authenticity” until it threatens their illusion.
They want “vulnerability” as long as it’s pretty, safe, packaged with a pastel background and a trending hashtag. Cry a little, smile at the end, say you’re healing.
But scream? Bleed on the mic?
Say something that makes people uncomfortable?
They’ll crucify you.
Being real in a fake world is the ultimate act of war.
That’s why Venomous Sin exists.
That’s why I write.
That’s why I don’t fucking stop.
“Be Kind” = “Be Quiet”
When people tell you to “just be kind,” what they’re really saying is:
Don’t make me face your truth.
Don’t disrupt my comfort.
Don’t say the thing I’m afraid to admit.
It’s spiritual censorship dressed up as virtue.
It’s gaslighting, polished and framed with pastel fonts.
“Just be kind” is how they silence survivors.
“Just be kind” is how they bury whistleblowers.
“Just be kind” is how they tell you to sit down and shut the fuck up while the world burns.
We’re Not Here to Be Liked
I don’t make music to be liked.
I don’t write to soothe you.
I’m not here to babysit your fragility.
I’m here to wake up the ones like me—the ones who’ve been silenced, excluded, punished for refusing to kneel.
You want to know what kindness really is?
Kindness is telling the truth when it costs you everything.
Kindness is standing your ground when the mob tries to erase you.
Kindness is protecting the wounded while you bleed.
Not smiling when they crucify you.
Not staying silent to make others comfortable.
Fuck the Fake. Embrace the Real.
This blog, this band, this movement—it’s not for the cowards, the fakes, the fragile egos who wilt at confrontation.
It’s for the warriors. The ones who’ve been exiled, demonized, shut out for being too much.
Too loud.
Too angry.
Too intense.
Too fucking real.
We don’t “manage our tone.”
We don’t “filter our message.”
We don’t “turn down the volume.”
We turn it up until the liars can’t hear themselves think.
If Kindness Is a Scam, What’s Left?
Truth. Integrity. Fire. Rebellion.
Don’t let them take that from you.
Be fierce. Be venomous. Be the storm that refuses to be silenced.
If they call you toxic, remind them:
We’re not toxic.
We’re fucking poison.
And this poison?
It’s the cure to a world sick with fake smiles and soft lies.
You Want Real?
Come see what we’re building.
This isn’t just a band.
It’s a war machine.
And we’re just getting started.
Join us. Or get out of the way.
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